9 Mistakes Every Blogger Should Avoid

Not knowing what your blogging motivation is (or having the wrong blogging motivation entirely) It's important to have our hearts i...

9 Mistakes Every Blogger Should Avoid

Not knowing what your blogging motivation is (or having the wrong blogging motivation entirely)
It's important to have our hearts in the right place and know why we're blogging. I truly believe everything we do - whether for personal or business reasons - should be done with honesty and integrity. It's surprising how many people start a blog just to bag some freebies or with the intention of somehow turning it into a full time job. The reality is, we don't know we're good at something until we try it and that's no different for blogging. Not everyone can run a successful blog, that shouldn't put us off trying but it should make us a little critical of our motivations.


Creating content based only on what is currently popular
It's tempting to think that if you replicate what's on the popular pages of Bloglovin, you'll give people what they want and entice new readers to your blog. Creating content to fit in with what's popular means your authenticity will slip. No one wants to read a copycat blog; do your own thing, write about what you want to write about and don't get sucked into the popularity contest of who can get the most "likes." There is a lot to be said about longevity.


Being worried about someone stealing your ideas and/or being accused of copying other people's ideas
It's all been done before and no one owns any ideas - if you want to write about something, do it. Likewise, don't assume someone stole "your" idea just because you posted the same subject a day or two before. We all need to stop being worried about someone stealing our ideas or being accused of copying just because our editorial calendars match up. Unless someone literally copies and pastes our work or removes credit, we need to stop with the finger pointing and crying copycat.


Not giving proper credit to sources
Every day there are posts that use other people's photography and/or graphics without giving proper credit. If you don't own an image and don't know the source, don't use it. There is a photographer, illustrator, or artist behind every piece of work - we owe it to them to credit properly and by not doing so, we encourage other people to do the same. Think about whether you would be happy with someone taking your work and republishing it without permission or credit. The only proper way to credit is to list the original creator's name - Tumblr, Pinterest, and WeHeartIt do not count.


Giving advice without authority or experience
Having opinions and sharing them is awesome, giving advice is a little more complex. If we're going to share advice we have to make it clear whether it's coming from someone with credibility and authority, with actual experience - people who have studied and worked in the areas they are giving advice on. Every thing else should be offered up as opinions. When bloggers are providing business advice on complex issues (such as taxes) it's a little scary to think of all the ways that could go wrong.


Being overly promotional online
We all have blogs and we want everyone to know about it because we think it's the best, right? But ramming it down people's throats is a pretty hard sell and isn't very enticing. If all you do online is plug your own content, you're driving people away rather than inviting them in. We all know a few people who do exactly this, only push their own content via social media and don't engage with anyone or promote other people's work. Don't be that person.


Not using an editorial calendar to plan content and prioritising quantity over quality
Using an editorial calendar doesn't destroy spontaneity, it brings consistency, productivity, and efficiency to your blog. Editorial calendars help provide a stable flow of quality content with a maintained momentum that in turn helps grow a blog's readership. Not using one can lead to stagnant and sporadic posting with an uneven spread of content.


Being obsessed with numbers and statistics
No amount of staring at Google Analytics or reader totals will make them grow faster - stop playing the numbers game and focus on the long run. It takes time to grow an established blog; in the first few months, use your anonymity to your advantage, test out ideas, features, and subjects you want to explore; find your voice and build your brand. Don't fall into the comparison trap by comparing your blog to someone else's or being bitter over opportunities offered to others and not you. Likewise, don't accept every PR "opportunity" that is thrown your way in hopes it might grow your readership faster. Only authentic content will win the hearts of others - there are no shortcuts.


Not replying to reader comments
This should go without saying by now but still there are bloggers who don't reply to their reader comments. We can't expect to talk without being prepared to listen; we shouldn't expect other people to engage with our blog if we're not going to reciprocate.

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  1. Great tips as always! There's a few on this list that I'm guilty of.

    http://insidesai.blogspot.co.uk/

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  2. Ooo your last one is interesting to me. I have one blog I read, and I find it v readable and interesting, but the girl who writes it NEVER replies to any comments... It puts me off, add it makes me feel like I'm inferior in some way or that her readers are to her as no replies?
    Odd I think as it's the greatest part of blogging world the conversation!

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  3. Great post (as always!). I definitely find myself slipping when it comes to creating things that are popular over what I want to do but I've finally told myself that writing about things I WANT to write about is way way better then worrying about BL popular pages and/or any sort of stats :)

    Sarah | More Than Adored

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  4. Nice list ! It's indeed very handy to make an editorial calender, I should make something like that.

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  5. These are great tips for beginners and I think we can all feel identified with a few. As a new blogger who still has doubts and fears about the online world your advice is very encouraging. The third point was particularly interesting to me as I am always thinking about what topics to share in my blog and when I think about an idea and I start writing, by the time I am done, I stumble across a new similar post on one of the blogs I like to read. It actually just happened with a post you wrote about podcasts. I felt a little weird about posting it because I had just finished writing that post when yours showed up on my bloglovin feed, I felt like a copycat when in reality it was just coincidence I guess, even so it took me a few days to finally post it. As new bloggers, we should not be afraid of that because it could discourage us from keep trying. What is important is not the idea itself, but how we present it and how we tell our story, that's what makes us different from each other. Thank you for such great advice and constant helpful posts, I love your blog.

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  6. disqus_SvkXAbTdBv3/16/2015

    The whole knowing why your blogging and not worrying about 'likes' and copying and all that rings so true. I reckon blogging is really all about you, and it shouldn't involve any outside influence into your writing and what you feel like sharing. It's just you and your readers. I honestly don't have a calendar, and yeah my blog probably looks really unordered but maybe I'm scared that if I get one I'll perceive blogging as a chore. As for the image sourcing thing, you've scared me and I'm ready to only use my own images!

    -M
    The Life of Little
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  7. These are great tips, I am still trying to get into the whole calendar bit. I try to plan but then something else comes up and I just want to blog about that right then and there. Even now, I have 4 blog posts ready to go and I can't decide which one I want to post first. :( How do you decide? Especially when all 4 of those are completely different.

    Ree // Coffee with Ree

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  8. Ha, yes to all of these. Having your own voice + style is super important! Don't be afraid of being different - be afraid of being like everyone else xx

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  9. 100% - there is no point trying to mimic everyone else.

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  10. I needed to read this. I'm been so unfocused lately to what I want my blog to become. "Only authentic content will win the hearts of others - there are no shortcuts." That nailed it for me. Thank your for your brave and honest content!

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  11. I have set days for posting things and I tend to stick to those (book posts on a Wednesday, lifestyle on weekends, etc.) it makes it slightly easier to decide what posts go where. Sometimes you just have to commit and schedule something :))

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  12. Oh, don't worry about it! Loads of people do the same/similar posts all the time; YOU know you haven't copied and that's all that matters. So long as we know, truly, that we haven't directly copied - everything is fine. Even if you see an idea and make it your own, that's fine too. There is too much worrying about copying it's ridiculous - for quite a while I was pretty paranoid about it but you've just got to relax.


    The images thing is a tough one, there are ways of finding out a source and there is nothing wrong with using other people's images SO LONG AS a) the original artist/creator is happy to allow people to do so; b) we credit properly. I see so many people crediting Tumblr/WeHeartIt/Pinterest as a source, it makes me sick.

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  13. No way, loads of people have done podcast posts - before me and after me - that doesn't mean anyone has copied, it's just a popular topic. I figure, IF someone has already done a post like that.. try to avoid using the same links and suggestions; so if I found a podcast post and it listed all the podcasts I wanted to share, I would share some of them but find new ones to share. It's all about trying to find an original angle. There are very few original topics left - we all need to stop worrying so much.

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  14. I know a lot of people think they "lack spontaneity" but that's ridiculous, it really helps with consistent blogging.

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  15. Definitely. It's easy to get swept into the "how many likes did my post get?" mentality.. and in a way, it is useful to look at the stats.. but I've started to ignore most of it now, even my analytics. I want to blog how I want to blog; I'm not doing it for money, I'm doing it for the enjoyment, as a hobby, so who cares how many people "like" it?

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  16. Thanks for reading :))

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  17. Great post! Very helpful and always good to gain insight from others. Thank you Sophie x

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  18. the second point on popular content makes me laugh because i don't know if it's because i follow too many blogs on bloglovin but recently i had like 3 or 4 posts about "fav diy's with gold accents" like what? lol!

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  19. This is a great post! I agree about the not replying to comments - especially when they're direct questions about something in the post. It drives me crazy when I spend the time reading and commenting on a blog post and the blogger doesn't reply.

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  20. Great tips

    xoxo

    http://fashionbackyard.blogspot.fr

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  21. I love interacting with my readers- it's one of the best thing about blogging!

    Jabeen x

    http://www.spilling-the-beans.co.uk/

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  22. The authority mistake is so true. People can tell if you're faking experience! I've learnt it's OK to admit you're sharing advice as a fellow beginner. My most popular posts are along the lines of, "hey I just figured this out, just had to share!"

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  23. Thanks for sharing! I've only just begun blogging, so hopefully this will be helpful for me to keep in mind to avoid. It seems as though #1 and #2 could go hand-in-hand. If someone's creating content based on what he/she sees as a trend or thinks is popular, the focus and motivation of the blog can begin to become fuzzy and lost.

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  24. Thank you for sharing this! There's a lot of points you made above that I totally agree with, and some others I'm actually guilty of myself *cough* no editorial calendar *cough* I always find it really helpful to see blogging faux pas through a more established bloggers' perspective, as I feel you have the experience that I one day wish to have, and therefore I need to take all the advice I can get :) xo

    LJLV | UK Personal Style

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  25. Rebecca P.3/16/2015

    Nailed it! Especially the last one...SO frustrating! I reply to every single comment (even ones that really don't warrant a reply, haha!)

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  26. Great article! I think I do it pretty good so far, no big mistakes here;-)


    thetouristoflife.com

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  27. Thanks for the tips! :) Hopefully I'll be able to avoid them now that I know.

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  28. Hi Sophie,

    This is so true - finding a deeper understanding of what you would like your blog to be about and what readers want to see is quite a tricky one. I love finding other healthy living blogs for inspiration and to build a community around me, in turn keeping my blog on the right path and making new friends along the way!

    Besma (Curiously Conscious)

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  29. Emma Wong3/16/2015

    Thanks for writing this! It really helped me click back to why I started my blog Xx -www.metamorphosisofagirl.com

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  30. These tips are great! Lately, I've found that a lot of my blog design clients have been particularly frustrated with their content, and they want to write something more substantial and concrete. I always tell them to follow the interests and desires. As being true to yourself is the most appealing characteristic of a good blog, yet it is very easy to get caught up with the opportunities for money and free things.

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  31. being obsessed with followers and stats just ruin all the fun for blogging, I think if you work hard at creating good content then people will start to find your blog and like it. And a big turn off for me is when bloggers never reply to comments, it might be hard to get through them all if you're a big blogger, but if you never reply to comments then there's no connection between the readers and the blogger


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  32. How is it that you always seem to hit the nail on the head with every blog post of this type? Every week I get a Bloglovin email with a bunch of posts I 'have to read' with tips on how to grow your blog, get more followers, get sponsorships, and it is all rather repulsive. Thank you for just telling it like it is.

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  33. Thankfully, I never heard anyone saying that an editorial calendar destroys spontaneity. But that is a very amateur thought. Editorial calendars makes anyone's life easier! :)

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  35. I thought there was more to it than simply crediting the author of a picture. A few things I read said in a lot of circumstances you can't just do that. Though if you search for pictures with a certain licence then that is normally ok. Amyx

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  36. Wonderful list of tips. There are times when I sign on Bloglovin' and every post that day is on the same topic. Makes me wonder if these bloggers are just writing about it because it's popular or what. I know blogging tips is really popular right now, but I like how you bring fresh ideas into play -- too many bloggers write the same list of thoughts which gets boring.

    http://www.mintnotion.com

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  37. Love your post. I can't understand why people would want to start a blog without an underlying passion for their content? Better to post quality content once a week than rubbish every other day! My site is primarily food/recipe based and I've seen enough quinoa recipes to last me a lifetime! But that's ok (never eaten it - yet). I've seen loads of posts recently with just one photo and a caption that says - "no words needed" - seriously, Pin it. Blogging is, to me, kind of an online diary, if other people read it and it connects with them THAT is the biggest compliment, that I've struck a chord or maybe even helped that person. I appreciate my readers and always reply to comments. I wonder if, in today's Celebrity led world (dare I mention Kim K - famous for living her life & having it telivised) do some bloggers see their likes/followers as a reflection of them, rather than their content?? Sammie http://www.feastingisfun.com

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  38. One of the few posts I have read where the tips are actually useful! Thank you!


    Sammi
    thechroniclesofwastedtime.blogspot.co.uk

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  39. rebecca3/16/2015

    I've been blogging since January and one thing I have noticed is the point about "Being overaly promotional", it's kind of irritating when someone posts tweet after tweet about their blog. Space it out a bit or don't do it at all...


    www.sheintheknow.co.uk

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  40. fancies&amp;beauty3/16/2015

    Great tips. I'll have to keep them in mind.

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  41. Great tips Sophie, thank you for sharing! Will definitely bear these in mind - I'm sure you're very knowledgeable having been around in the blogging world for some time now. Always good to learn from people who are constructive, helpful and not overly-patronising (some bloggers tend to walk that line!).



    With love ♥︎ » Paris by Friday

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  42. Sarah Campbell3/16/2015

    Great post, perfect for those newbie 5 minute bloggers who really don't 'get' what blogging is all about! I try to not look at the numbers and just go with what feels right when it comes to content and schedule. I love getting comments, especially when it's the same people popping up for each new post, it really builds that sense of community and you really start to get to know who your genuine readers are, over the one off 'I commented on your blog - comment on mine?' comments!

    Sarah :)
    Saloca in Wonderland

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  43. Being over promotional is a big one I think. Seems like it's all bloggers are doing these days. X

    Taylor Swift style steel on the blog-
    hailandharmony.blogspot.ie
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  44. Great post! I'm guilty of being a bit obsessed with numbers. I try to not being though but it's very hard!

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  45. What I hate the most is "follow for follow"! Sometimes I'll share my link on twitter chats, but I don't want people to follow me if they think I'm gonna follow them after, I'm getting excited when I see my following number grow and then I'm disappointed when I see it going down... Follow me if you LIKE my blog, not because you think I'm gonna follow back, cos it won't happen!

    http://atouchofpink1.blogspot.ca/

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  46. Maireem Maneje3/16/2015

    Thank you for the advice!


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  47. You always have the best advice! Thank you for this!!

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  48. Hello! Thank you for these tips, much appreciated! x Do you know what I am most struggling with, actually is finding opportunities for guest blogging or / and building a community as a new blogger. Any tips on that would be very appreciated.

    Clouded x
    CloudedDottedMind.com

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  49. As a newbie, these tips are very helpful. I think I worry myself too much with appearing as if I'm copying someone else's post but your opinion about it made me feel a lot better. Thanks!

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  50. I'm recently new to blogging so loved this! Thanks for the advice!
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  51. Yes yes yes to everything you wrote here! I could agree more. It drives me bonkers when people credit Pinterest or Weheartit for image sources. Even large brands do this and it makes me so angry! Even though the images they are using don't belong to me, I would still love to know the original author so I can see more of their work. It usually isn't that difficult to trace an image back to the original author, either... it's just an extra step or two that people don't want to bother with because it isn't convenient.

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  52. #1 confused me a bit, especially at the end-- " Not everyone can run a successful blog, that shouldn't put us off trying but it should make us a little critical of our motivations." I'd love if you could explain that for me! #7 hit home for me. I've recently re-launched my blog and I've been checking the stats constantly-- I need to sit back and be patient, but it's harder done than said, ha! But overall, I really enjoyed this, thank you!


    --Mel // www.MAREVOLI.com

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  53. I love interacting with my readers to see what they have to say!

    Jenna | jennaloves3.blogspot.co.uk

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  54. Thank you for reading and I'm glad it helpful. I have felt the same about blogging; I have felt I have been drifting a little bit and not really focused on what I REALLY want this space to be. It's always good to remind ourselves of why we're doing what we're doing.

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  55. Thank you so much for reading.

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  56. Yeah, I see that happening a lot too. I guess certain topics become popular so we see a surge in posts covering it.. which is OK so long as it's bringing something new to the table, y'know? Otherwise it's just repetitive.

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  57. The way I see it is, the biggest YouTuber with over 30 MILLION subscribers is able to respond to a lot of his comments - so someone with a few thousands blog readers can make a little time to reply to those people who read their blog.


    It infuriates me, it really does.

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  58. Absolutely, I feel the same way. It's a really important reason why I blog - the interaction with others.

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  59. I LOVE people sharing their advice and opinions and experiences, but I don't like people who openly try to set themselves up as an 'expert.' Why does someone even need that title? It's pointless and it comes across as arrogant. Oh so you have a popular blog and now you think you're an expert in blogging? WTF.

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  60. Definitely. I think there are a lot of people who "lose their way" because they focus too much on producing popular content rather than satisfying themselves and their readers.

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  61. I never used to have an editorial calendar and sometimes I come across as though I'm trying to be an expert - but I'm not, I promise! We all have things to learn along the way when it comes to blogging :))

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  62. It infuriates me so much

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  63. Thank you for reading :))

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  64. Thank you for reading!

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  65. I'm always realigning my blog and my values; I always try to keep reminding myself of what this space is for and what I want to do with it. Lately I feel like I have been too focused on creative content and I want to bring in a bit more lifestyle/personal posts, especially at the weekends. I want this place to be a reminder of what I've done, not a constant stream of "hints and tips."

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  66. Thank you for reading :))

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  67. I think this is a problem with businesses who want a blog because they know it's good for SEO and brand awareness. I have a business but I don't have a blog for it, yet this space - which is completely separate - is a good way of building brand awareness in an authentic way. I think businesses forget there is more than one way of doing things and having a "corporate/traditional blog" isn't always a smart move.

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  68. Absolutely - be interested in other people and they will be interested in you. It works. I try to seek out people online I know would like my blog - small business people, handmade and craft people - not just because I want them to read my blog but because I want to make friends with them, genuinely. I want to build a community, not preach to a choir.

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  69. Ahh, thank you so much that means a lot. I always worry I'm straying down the same worn down path and these kind of posts make me nervous about publishing them.

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  70. I hear it a lot amongst bloggers. People have the opinion that if you plan content out, especially months in advance, it's "not as good" as just posting it on a day-to-day basis - which is silly to me. Planning ahead means I can relax about blogging; I write a little every day and rework my calendar when I need to. If anything I feel it's much more beneficial to have some kind of plan in place than to just take blogging day by day.

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  71. Absolutely. You have to make sure the original creator is happy with you using their work and there are different ways you're allowed to use it as well. I didn't want to go into too much detail here but I am thinking about writing up a post about crediting correctly because a lot of people get it wrong.

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  72. I'm always a little nervous about sharing these kinds of posts because I know they have been covered time and time again, it gets a little boring. I often eye roll at all the same content being promoted on Bloglovin so I want to, like you said, bring some fresh ideas into play - I hope I manage to do that!

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  73. That means a lot, thank you :))

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  74. It's difficult to get right but I think the important thing is to share other people's content too and not just our own.

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  75. Thank you so much for reading.

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  76. I hope so, I try not to be patronising or come across as a "know-it-all" - I'm still learning too!

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  77. Sounds like you're doing everything just right :))

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  78. You nailed this! I feel exactly the same. I will promote my link in chats but I only expect people who really like my blog to follow it, just like I will only follow a blog if I really like it. I don't want people following under the assumption that I will follow them back; I'm not in it for the numbers.

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  79. Absolutely and I understand promotion is hugely important BUT it's also important to share other people's content too.

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  80. It's difficult but I think the key thing to remember is focus on YOURS. Don't look at other people and wonder why you haven't got X amount of readers like they do, just be proud if you have 1 or 100 or 10,000.

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  81. Thank you for reading.

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  82. Thank you so much!

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  83. To be honest, I have never really approached anyone to guest post maybe a couple of times? And it's usually when they have done a post asking for contributions. So I can't help there sorry.


    But what I would say, about building community is, regularly visit and leave meaningful comments on people's blogs who you like and admire; talk to people online - Twitter is fantastic for that - use Twitter chats and hashtags to connect with people. Reach out and talk to people who you find and like what they are doing.

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  84. Don't worry about it, don't over think it. YOU know you didn't copy so it's all good.

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  85. Thank you for reading.

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  86. It's a MAJOR bugbear of mine. As a designer-maker with a lot of friends who are also creators, it makes me incredibly angry to see people using other people's work - like photographs and artwork - without crediting properly. There are a ton of ways of finding out who created something and when I see people crediting Tumblr or Pinterest or whatever it makes me fume.

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  87. What I'm trying to say is, a lot of people start a blog thinking they can turn it into a job and unfortunately, not everyone can do that. Not everyone has the skills it takes to become their own boss and produce content for a living; blogging requires a whole heap of skills and it's only when we start to do something that we realise whether it's a possibility for us or a dream.

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  88. Soooo true about reader comments! Especially in the early stages when there aren't that many! I genuinely do not get why you wouldn't. I would hate to think my readers felt unappreciated. Some of their comments are more insightful and funny than my entire posts!

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  89. This drives me CRAZY. CRAY. ZEE. I have an instant unfollow policy for this kind of behaviour because it offends me so much. Just google image search it for pete's sake! Or - here's a crazy idea - create your own images/illustrations/fonts. The number of sites that take a beautiful photo that has been painstakingly edited, slap a slogan on top of it and call it their own is infuriating in the extreme.

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  90. It's arrogance, that's the only way I can view it; if someone has the time to blog, then they have the time to answer a few comments. I definitely agree with the "spammy comments" - people who leave "great post!" with a link to their blog/latest post make me roll my eyes; I answer these anyway with a brief "thank you" but I understand why other bloggers would ignore them.

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  91. I want to call people out on it. There are a couple of blogs that, considering the bloggers themselves claim they are "creatives" including photographers, should know better than to not credit properly. It's just not acceptable.

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  92. carryonmania3/17/2015

    Absolutely loved the post. Very well written. Thanks for the advice ! :)

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  93. Hello, I think it's time for me to have editorial calendar... Hmmm... Where should I start? You can check my latest post with interesting links here: http://www.igaberry.com/

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  94. Hi Sophie,
    Well noted, and to be fair it's the most natural way to do things anyway, so I'm glad about that. :) Again, many thanks for your input. x

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  95. It really makes me cringe when someone has ONE isolated case of success and then uses that as their proof of authority. I think the forced 'expert' thing is more of an American blogging approach, too.

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  96. Stephanie Eva3/17/2015

    Awesome points here! I agree with all, but especially the "being overly promotional" and "not replying to reader comments". Oh, and "giving advice without authority". I kills me when there is a blogger sponsored by a mediocre product, singing false praises and giving cosmetology advice along side (I'm a cosmetologist so when someone is giving a false fact I can see it!). Then when I leave a comment, they don't answer! I understand that with bigger blogs it may not be easy to answer every comment, but maybe committing to answering an hour after a post goes up would be nice. Or an hour to just read and reply to comments when they can?


    I'm also with Maddie. I would hate for any reader that came to my blog, who took effort to leave a comment for me, to feel unappreciated! Arrogance and also ignorance! You're so write about the reciprocation of engaging in content!! It's also true that one of the worst comments to receive is one where the offender clearly has not read the post and is leaving a cut/paste comment with a link to their blog. I leave my link in my sign off on most comments because I'm excited about sharing my blog and building community. I have met SO MANY amazing friends this way!! BUT I don't leave a comment if I'm not planning to read through the whole post first. It just wouldn't make sense!


    Thanks for sharing, and sorry for the little novel ;)


    Much Love,
    -Stephanie Eva
    www.stephanieheva.blogspot.com

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  97. Ah okay! Thank you for breaking it down for me. I definitely misinterpreted it but that I agree with!

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  98. Couldn't agree more! I'm a photographer and I feel the exact same way. I see people do it on Instagram as well - they post photos and will say "image found on Pinterest", meanwhile their seemingly "beautiful" feed is being crafted of images the other people created. Le sigh...

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  99. Great post. I really appreciate the section about giving advice. We can't all be experts in everything, but we sure know how to express our opinions.

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  100. I don't think that's a bad thing, but of course it's your blog so your voice. I also struggle to find the balance between informational content and personal posts, so I'm always trying to find ways to tie the two together.

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  101. great post! I agree completely! I Started a lifestyle and fashion blog a few weeks ago and I'm super happy about it and doing my own thing! Thanks for the tips!! ;)


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  102. I love this post, Sophie! Probably my favorite so far! I have a lot of favorites on your blog, but this one resonated to me the most.

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  103. I have often been tempted to call people out too. Honestly very few things make my blood boil like that does. I just get scared of burning bridges within the blogging community and wimp out.

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  104. Zoe Robson3/19/2015

    This is so real and its simplicity is perfect!!!!! Its a nicer reminder for me while I'm just getting my blogging mojo back!!

    Zoe
    zoeclairer.wordpress.com

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  105. This is such a helpful post! I'm definitely saving this one! Thanks, Sophie! :)

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